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Office worker, 29, admits her addiction to having SEX more than 10 times a day has cost her a job and friends (and it’s left her boyfriend worn out!)

&Tab;&Tab;<div class&equals;"wpcnt">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<div class&equals;"wpa">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<span class&equals;"wpa-about">Advertisements<&sol;span>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<div class&equals;"u top&lowbar;amp">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<amp-ad width&equals;"300" height&equals;"265"&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab; type&equals;"pubmine"&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab; data-siteid&equals;"109460728"&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab; data-section&equals;"1">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;amp-ad>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;div><div class&equals;"articleWide cleared">&NewLine;<div class&equals;"alpha">&NewLine;<div>&NewLine;<h1><strong><span style&equals;"color&colon;&num;4d0e0e&semi;"><em> &&num;8216&semi;&&num;8230&semi;keen to dispel the myths around the issue and make people realise it is a real problem and not something to laugh about&&num;8217&semi;<&sol;em><&sol;span><&sol;strong><&sol;h1>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<h2><span style&equals;"color&colon;&num;092607&semi;">Sami Walton&comma; 29&comma; developed a sex addiction in her early 20s after break-up<&sol;span><br &sol;>&NewLine;<span style&equals;"color&colon;&num;092607&semi;"> She travelled hundreds of miles to sleep with friends and strangers<&sol;span><br &sol;>&NewLine;<span style&equals;"color&colon;&num;092607&semi;"> But her life has turned around since meeting partner James Keates&comma; 38<&sol;span><br &sol;>&NewLine;<span style&equals;"color&colon;&num;092607&semi;"> Now she is raising awareness because &&num;8216&semi;sex addiction is a serious issue&&num;8217&semi;<&sol;span><&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>She lost her job and many of her friends due to her struggles with addiction&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;But Sami Walton is not under the power of drugs or alcohol&comma; but rather a slave to her own lust&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;The 29-year-old has a sex addiction that leaves her unable to keep her hands off partner of four years James Keates&period; Office worker Miss Walton leaves the 38-year-old exhausted by having sex more than 10 times a day on some occasions&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;But she is keen to dispel the myths around the issue and make people realise it is a real problem and not something to laugh about&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h5><img class&equals;"alignnone size-full wp-image-11255" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2016&sol;04&sol;3345c74400000578-3544574-sami&lowbar;walton&lowbar;left&lowbar;29&lowbar;has&lowbar;a&lowbar;sex&lowbar;addiction&lowbar;and&lowbar;sometimes&lowbar;has&lowbar;to&lowbar;hav-m-18&lowbar;1460911230107&period;jpg" alt&equals;"3345c74400000578-3544574-sami&lowbar;walton&lowbar;left&lowbar;29&lowbar;has&lowbar;a&lowbar;sex&lowbar;addiction&lowbar;and&lowbar;sometimes&lowbar;has&lowbar;to&lowbar;hav-m-18&lowbar;1460911230107" width&equals;"634" height&equals;"388" &sol;><br &sol;>&NewLine;Sami Walton&comma; left&comma; 29&comma; has a sex addiction and sometimes has to have sex 10 times a day with partner James Keates&comma; 38&comma; right<&sol;h5>&NewLine;<p><strong><img class&equals;"alignnone size-full wp-image-11257" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2016&sol;04&sol;3345c7ec00000578-3544574-image-a-9&lowbar;1460910665395&period;jpg" alt&equals;"3345c7ec00000578-3544574-image-a-9&lowbar;1460910665395" width&equals;"306" height&equals;"601" &sol;><img class&equals;"alignnone size-full wp-image-11259" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2016&sol;04&sol;3345c7c400000578-3544574-image-a-10&lowbar;1460910665563&period;jpg" alt&equals;"3345c7c400000578-3544574-image-a-10&lowbar;1460910665563" width&equals;"306" height&equals;"601" &sol;><&sol;strong><br &sol;>&NewLine;<strong>Miss Walton&comma; left and right with Mr Keates&comma; developed the problem in her early 20s after a break-up<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Miss Walton&comma; of Ascot&comma; Berkshire&comma; told the Sunday People&colon; &&num;8216&semi;Most men think they would love a partner who needs sex so much&comma; but none of my ­previous boyfriends could handle it&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&&num;8216&semi;I&&num;8217&semi;m lucky to have James&period; Not only does he have the stamina to keep up with me&comma; he&&num;8217&semi;s really supportive and doesn&&num;8217&semi;t judge me when I&&num;8217&semi;m having a bad day&period;&&num;8217&semi;<br &sol;>&NewLine;If Mr Keates is too tired to sustain her addiction she has a £1&comma;500 collection of sex toys to turn to&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;He told the People&colon; &&num;8216&semi;In the early days I felt like I&&num;8217&semi;d won the lottery&period; But now I&&num;8217&semi;m getting a bit older it can be exhausting and I know it gets Sami down&period; I just try my best to be understanding&period;&&num;8217&semi;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Miss Walton said she has shunned medical treatment in the past because she did not feel doctors understood what she was going through&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;She revealed she would travel hundreds of miles to sleep with strangers before meeting her partner<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h5><strong><img class&equals;"alignnone size-full wp-image-11261" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2016&sol;04&sol;3345c7f400000578-3544574-image-m-13&lowbar;1460910684989&period;jpg" alt&equals;"3345c7f400000578-3544574-image-m-13&lowbar;1460910684989" width&equals;"634" height&equals;"623" &sol;><br &sol;>&NewLine;She revealed she would travel hundreds of miles to sleep with strangers before meeting her partner<&sol;strong><br &sol;>&NewLine;<strong><img class&equals;"alignnone size-full wp-image-11263" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2016&sol;04&sol;3345c7e800000578-3544574-image-m-12&lowbar;1460910675071&period;jpg" alt&equals;"3345c7e800000578-3544574-image-m-12&lowbar;1460910675071" width&equals;"634" height&equals;"425" &sol;><&sol;strong><br &sol;>&NewLine;<strong>The couple have been together for four years and Miss Walton said Mr Keates is her &&num;8216&semi;lover and therapist&&num;8217&semi;<&sol;strong><&sol;h5>&NewLine;<p><strong><img class&equals;"alignnone size-full wp-image-11265" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2016&sol;04&sol;3345c7f000000578-3544574-image-a-14&lowbar;1460910695152&period;jpg" alt&equals;"3345c7f000000578-3544574-image-a-14&lowbar;1460910695152" width&equals;"634" height&equals;"627" &sol;><&sol;strong><br &sol;>&NewLine;<strong>Mr Keates added her addiction was &&num;8216&semi;obvious&&num;8217&semi; from the start but that he &&num;8216&semi;understands&&num;8217&semi; and reassures her<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>She developed the problem in her early 20s after a break-up with a long term partner&comma; and ended up travelling all over the country for casual rendezvous with both men and women&period; It led to her failing to turn up to work and her life &&num;8216&semi;spiralled out of control&&num;8217&semi;&comma; sleeping with regular &&num;8216&semi;friends with benefits&&num;8217&semi; and complete strangers&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;She added it led to &&num;8216&semi;dangerous situations&&num;8217&semi; because she would go home with people she &&num;8216&semi;knew nothing about&&num;8217&semi;&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Miss Walton said a life-changing moment came in 2010 when she woke up hundreds of miles away from home and she realised she had a genuine problem and was not just &&num;8216&semi;on the rebound&&num;8217&semi;&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;She soon lost her job and went to see her GP about the issue&comma; but was only prescribed anti-anxiety medication&comma; while the waiting list to see a counsellor was &&num;8216&semi;too long&&num;8217&semi;&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;The 29-year-old&comma; right&comma; lost her financial job because she would often turn up late to work or not at all due to her meeting people for sex<br &sol;>&NewLine;<img class&equals;"alignnone size-full wp-image-11268" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2016&sol;04&sol;3345c78c00000578-3544574-image-a-15&lowbar;1460910715802&period;jpg" alt&equals;"3345c78c00000578-3544574-image-a-15&lowbar;1460910715802" width&equals;"634" height&equals;"416" &sol;><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The 29-year-old&comma; right&comma; lost her financial job because she would often turn up late to work or not at all due to her meeting people for sex<br &sol;>&NewLine;She added she does not undergo formal treatment for the condition because doctors &&num;8216&semi;don&&num;8217&semi;t understand it&&num;8217&semi;<br &sol;>&NewLine;<img class&equals;"alignnone size-full wp-image-11270" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2016&sol;04&sol;3345c7d400000578-3544574-image-a-16&lowbar;1460910722530&period;jpg" alt&equals;"3345c7d400000578-3544574-image-a-16&lowbar;1460910722530" width&equals;"634" height&equals;"423" &sol;><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>She added she does not undergo formal treatment for the condition because doctors &&num;8216&semi;don&&num;8217&semi;t understand it&&num;8217&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>But six months later her life began to turn around after meeting Mr Keates through a mutual friend&comma; and he has become a source of comfort and reassurance for her&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Mr Keates said it was &&num;8216&semi;obvious&&num;8217&semi; his new partner was a sex addict straight away but that he told her they could talk about the issue and have always been open about it&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;He added he is &&num;8216&semi;quite adventurous&&num;8217&semi; and they once had sex more than 40 times over a Bank Holiday weekend&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Miss Walton describes her boyfriend as her &&num;8216&semi;therapist and lover&&num;8217&semi; and said if she is ever feeling overwhelmed she calls him for support&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote><p>WHAT IS SEX ADDICTION AND HOW CAN IT BE TREATED&quest;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Relationship counselling service Relate describes sex addiction as any sexual activity that feels out of control for the people participating&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;This can involve sex with another person but also watching pornography&comma; masturbation&comma; visiting prostitutes or calling sex chat lines&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Addicts are unable to control their urges and actions and thus it causes problems in their relationships&comma; finances and professional lives&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;The addiction itself is causes by powerful chemicals released in the human body during sex that the addict craves&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Signs of sex addiction include increased irritability&comma; tiredness&comma; depression&comma; anxiety&comma; a reduced sex drive with a romantic partner and erectile difficulties&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Treatment is usually found in the form of counselling along with specialist centres that treat compulsive behaviour&period;<&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<h5><em><strong>Lets us know what you think of this article&period; Like&quest; Dislike&quest; Funny&quest; Interesting&quest; Cool&quest; Drop us a line in the comment box or join us on facebook and twitter to help us give you a better reading experience<&sol;strong> <&sol;em><&sol;h5>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;

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