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Alabama mother, 32, who was ‘raped by her uncle’ as a teenager laments she must now let him see the two boys he fathered out of the attacks, pleads with the state to protect victims rights

&Tab;&Tab;<div class&equals;"wpcnt">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<div class&equals;"wpa">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<span class&equals;"wpa-about">Advertisements<&sol;span>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<div class&equals;"u top&lowbar;amp">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<amp-ad width&equals;"300" height&equals;"265"&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab; type&equals;"pubmine"&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab; data-siteid&equals;"109460728"&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab; data-section&equals;"1">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;amp-ad>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;div><header id&equals;"ra-headers">&NewLine;<h6><span style&equals;"color&colon; &num;2b2424&semi;"><strong>&&num;8216&semi;I&&num;8217&semi;ve spent my whole life scared of my rapist&comma; now I&&num;8217&semi;m fighting him for custody of my children&&num;8217&semi;<&sol;strong><&sol;span><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<h6><span style&equals;"color&colon; &num;2b2424&semi;"><strong>Alabama mother who was &&num;8216&semi;raped by her uncle&&num;8217&semi;&comma; beginning in her pre-teen years onwards&comma; is forced to let him see the two boys he fathered out of the attacks<&sol;strong><&sol;span><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<h6><span style&equals;"color&colon; &num;2b2424&semi;"><strong>Jessica Stallings&comma; 32&comma;from Birmingham&comma; Alabama says she was raped by her uncle Lenion as a teenager<&sol;strong><&sol;span><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<h6><span style&equals;"color&colon; &num;2b2424&semi;"><strong>He started raping her&comma; she says&comma; when she was 12 and he was 19 in Alabama &&num;8211&semi; at age <&sol;strong><&sol;span><span style&equals;"color&colon; &num;2b2424&semi;"><strong>16&comma; she gave birth to their first son and had another aged 19 <&sol;strong><&sol;span><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<h6><span style&equals;"color&colon; &num;2b2424&semi;"><strong>She suffered a miscarriage when she was 14 and had a baby at 18 who died<&sol;strong><&sol;span><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<h6><span style&equals;"color&colon; &num;2b2424&semi;"><strong>Their family forced her to to marry her close blood relation but the marriage was annulled because the pair are related <&sol;strong><&sol;span><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<h6><span style&equals;"color&colon; &num;2b2424&semi;"><strong>Despite DNA proof of rape and incest&comma; her attacker has never been brought to justice&comma; Stallings says <&sol;strong><&sol;span><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<h6><span style&equals;"color&colon; &num;2b2424&semi;"><strong>Now&comma; having left prison on drug charges&comma; Lenion wants access to the boys <&sol;strong><&sol;span><span style&equals;"color&colon; &num;2b2424&semi;"><strong> <&sol;strong><&sol;span><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<h6><b><span style&equals;"color&colon; &num;2b2424&semi;">In the state of Alabama that does not strip rapists of their rights to see children they have fathered&comma; <&sol;span><&sol;b><span style&equals;"color&colon; &num;2b2424&semi;"><strong>Stallings has been told she must let him see them or face jail herself <&sol;strong><&sol;span><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-img-group floatRHS">&NewLine;<h6 class&equals;"imageCaption"><img class&equals;"alignnone size-full wp-image-321757" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2019&sol;06&sol;Jessica-Stallings-1&period;png" alt&equals;"Jessica Stallings 1" width&equals;"433" height&equals;"462" &sol;><br &sol;>&NewLine;<strong>Jessica Stallings&comma; 32&comma; from Alabama has publicly identified herself in interviews&comma; revealing that she was abused by her uncle from the age of 12 onwards&period; She had four pregnancies&comma; giving birth to two children&comma; one still birth and a miscarriage at 14&comma; all from rape by her uncle&comma; Lenion Richard Barnett<&sol;strong><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<p class&equals;"imageCaption">&NewLine;Jessica Stallings has given repeated interviews where she agreed to discuss the case but not reveal her face&period; She says she was raped by her uncle from the age of 12 onwards and now has two children by him&period; <span style&equals;"color&colon; var&lpar;--color-text&rpar;&semi;">Stallings who is from Alabama says she was raped by her uncle repeatedly as a teenager and forced to marry him after he fathered two children has spoken out to complain about a court forcing her to let him see the kids&period; <&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<p class&equals;"mol-para-with-font">Jessica Stallings&comma; 32&comma; has publicly identified herself in interviews to describe being raped by her uncle Lenion Richard Barnett&comma; who she says started &&num;8216&semi;climbing into her bed&&num;8217&semi; when she was 12 and he was 19 in Birmingham&comma; Alabama&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Over the next seven years&comma; Barnett&comma; who is her mother&&num;8217&semi;s half-brother&comma; impregnated her four times&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Her first pregnancy&comma; when she was just 14&comma; ended in miscarriage&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;When she was 16&comma; she gave birth to their son&period; At 18&comma; she had another child who died&period; Aged 19&comma; she had their last child&comma; another boy&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Sickeningly&comma; her family forced her to marry him but the marriage was annulled by a court which deemed it illegal because they are related&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;<span style&equals;"color&colon; var&lpar;--color-text&rpar;&semi;"> I&&num;8217&semi;ve spent my entire life scared to death of my rapist&comma; and now&comma; I&&num;8217&semi;m fighting him for custody of my children&&num;8217&semi; &&num;8211&semi; <&sol;span><span style&equals;"color&colon; var&lpar;--color-text&rpar;&semi;">Jessica Stallings said&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;<&sol;span>Despite that and the fact that DNA testing proves he is the children&&num;8217&semi;s father&comma; the uncle has never been arrested or convicted of sex crimes&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Stallings ran away with the children&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;But in 2015&comma; Barnett was released from prison on unrelated drug charges&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;He sought custody of the children upon his release&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;To protect them&comma; Stallings reported the rapes for the first time but a grand jury declined to prosecute and their reason for the decision is sealed along with the case files&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Now&comma; he is demanding access to the two boys he fathered and he has been allowed to&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;In an interview she gave <a class&equals;"class" href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;washingtonpost&period;com&sol;national&sol;in-alabama--where-lawmakers-banned-abortion-for-rape-victims--rapists-parental-rights-are-protected&sol;2019&sol;06&sol;09&sol;6d2aa5de-831b-11e9-933d-7501070ee669&lowbar;story&period;html&quest;noredirect&equals;on&amp&semi;utm&lowbar;term&equals;&period;b6729332673a" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"nofollow noopener noreferrer">The Washington Post<&sol;a> last month&comma; Stallings said &&num;8216&semi;It&&num;8217&semi;s sickening&period; I&&num;8217&semi;ve spent my entire life scared to death of my rapist&comma; and now&comma; I&&num;8217&semi;m fighting him for custody of my children&&num;8217&semi;&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;&&num;8216&semi;I had so much shame&period; I spent my entire childhood pregnant and terrified he was going to kill me&comma;&&num;8217&semi; she added&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Stallings said she lost faith in the courts a &&num;8216&semi;long time ago&&num;8217&semi; but that others ought to be aware of the worrying rules&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;&&num;8216&semi;I’ve decided I won’t be silenced&period; I want other women in Alabama to know that their rapist may be in their lives — maybe forever — if this law isn’t passed&period;&&num;8217&semi; she said&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"artSplitter mol-img-group">&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-img">&NewLine;<div class&equals;"image-wrap fff-pic">&NewLine;<div class&equals;"overlay-icon mobile-gallery">&NewLine;<h6 class&equals;"mobile-gallery-icon"><span style&equals;"color&colon; var&lpar;--color-text&rpar;&semi;"><img class&equals;"alignnone size-full wp-image-321759" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2019&sol;06&sol;Jessica-Stallings-2&period;png" alt&equals;"Jessica Stallings 2" width&equals;"1139" height&equals;"745" &sol;><strong>&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;I’ve spent my entire life scared to death of my rapist&comma; and now&comma; I’m fighting him for custody of my children&comma;”  Jessica Stallings says she was 12 when her uncle started raping her&period; Despite DNA tests that proved incest and rape&comma; her uncle has maintained parental rights to their two children&period;<&sol;strong><&sol;span><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<h6 class&equals;"mobile-gallery-icon"><span style&equals;"color&colon; var&lpar;--color-text&rpar;&semi;"><img class&equals;"alignnone wp-image-321760" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2019&sol;06&sol;Alabamas-state-senate-pass-a-bill-which-bans-abortions&period;png" alt&equals;"Alabama's state senate pass a bill which bans abortions" width&equals;"1315" height&equals;"846" &sol;><strong>In Alabama where the state senate passed a bill in May&period; 2019 which bans abortions for rape victims&comma; rapists’ parental rights are protected<&sol;strong><&sol;span><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<div><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mobile-gallery-icon"><span style&equals;"color&colon; var&lpar;--color-text&rpar;&semi;">Alabama&&num;8217&semi;s state senate passed a bill last month which bans abortions&comma; even in cases of rape or incest&period; Stallings says she supports it but that a new law must be introduced to protect rape victims later&comma; after they have given birth to their rapists&&num;8217&semi; children&comma; to stop them from coming for custody<br &sol;>&NewLine;<&sol;span><span style&equals;"color&colon; var&lpar;--color-text&rpar;&semi;">After running away with her sons&comma; she spent time living in The Ronald McDonald House where she says she felt most safe&period; <&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<p class&equals;"mol-para-with-font">Because Alabama is one of the few states in the country which does not strip rapists of their rights&comma; and because he has never been found guilty of raping her&comma; the children&&num;8217&semi;s mother has been told she must comply or face jail herself&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Over Christmas&comma; she had to see him to let him spend three days with the boys&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Stallings said she has chosen to speak out in light of the state&&num;8217&semi;s recently-passed abortion laws which makes it illegal for women to seek an abortion&comma; even if they have been raped&comma; unless it will endanger their life to carry the child&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;She supports the law and does not regret having the two boys&comma; saying that every life is equal despite how the child was conceived&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;However&comma; she believes states must enforce a law to protect rape victims once the babies are born&comma; like hers&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;&&num;8216&semi;If we’re going to ban abortions&comma; we need laws in place for rape victims&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;&&num;8216&semi;We’re not encouraging them to go through with their pregnancies if we’re telling them they have to be constantly bound to their rapist because they conceived&comma;&&num;8217&semi; she said&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"moduleFull mol-video">&NewLine;<div class&equals;"item">&NewLine;<div id&equals;"v-4575003118750353460" class&equals;"vjs-video-container vjs-fixed vjs-span-two-col 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gathered Sunday evening in Montgomery to protest Alabama's new abortion ban&period; The ban is not going into effect until November 2019&comma; but many expect that court challenges could block it before then&period;&quot&semi;&comma;&quot&semi;referenceId&quot&semi;&colon;1928832&comma;&quot&semi;grapeshot&quot&semi;&colon;&lbrace;&quot&semi;article&quot&semi;&colon;&lbrace;&quot&semi;articleURL&quot&semi;&colon;&quot&semi;https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;dailymail&period;co&period;uk&sol;news&sol;article-7142079&sol;Alabama-woman-claims-court-letting-rapist-uncle-kids&period;html&quot&semi;&rcub;&rcub;&rcub;">&NewLine;<div class&equals;"vjs-title">&NewLine;<div class&equals;"vjs-title-text">&NewLine;<h6><img class&equals;"alignnone size-full wp-image-321761" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2019&sol;06&sol;Alabama-governor-signs-bill-authorizing-near-total-ban-on-abortion&period;png" alt&equals;"Alabama governor signs bill authorizing near total ban on abortion" width&equals;"633" height&equals;"436" &sol;><strong>Alabama Governor Kay Ivey &lbrack;R&rsqb;&comma; signs bill authorizing near total ban on abortion<&sol;strong><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<div>&NewLine;Alabama&&num;8217&semi;s Republican Governor Kay Ivey is seen signing the bill into law in May&period; She called the new law &&num;8216&semi;a powerful testament to Alabamians&&num;8217&semi; deeply held belief that every life is precious&&num;8217&semi;&period;  <span style&equals;"color&colon; var&lpar;--color-text&rpar;&semi;">The bill signed by Governor Ivey is the most stringent abortion ban in the nation&period;<&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p class&equals;"mol-para-with-font">The law will make performing an abortion at any stage of pregnancy a felony punishable by 10 to 99 years or life in prison&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;The law contains an exception for when the pregnancy creates a serious health risk for the woman&comma; but not an exception for rape or incest&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;There would be no punishment for the woman receiving the abortion&comma; only for the abortion provider&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;header>&NewLine;

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