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Louisiana mother, 32, loses custody to man who raped her as a minor, ‘because she bought their daughter, 16, a cell phone’ – Judge grants him full custody of their teen daughter, orders woman to pay child support to her alleged rapist

&Tab;&Tab;<div class&equals;"wpcnt">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<div class&equals;"wpa">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<span class&equals;"wpa-about">Advertisements<&sol;span>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<div class&equals;"u top&lowbar;amp">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<amp-ad width&equals;"300" height&equals;"265"&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab; type&equals;"pubmine"&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab; data-siteid&equals;"109460728"&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab; data-section&equals;"1">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;amp-ad>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"has-text-color wp-block-heading" style&equals;"color&colon;&num;362a2a&semi;font-size&colon;14px"><strong>Louisiana mother&comma; 32&comma; is ordered to pay child support to man who &&num;8216&semi;RAPED her when she was 16&&num;8217&semi; &&num;8211&semi; AND give him full custody of their teen daughter &&num;8216&semi;because she bought her a cellphone&&num;8217&semi; <&sol;strong><&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"has-text-color wp-block-heading" style&equals;"color&colon;&num;362a2a&semi;font-size&colon;14px"><strong>Crysta Abelseth&comma; now 32&comma; claims John Paul Barnes raped her in 2005&comma; when she was 16 <&sol;strong><&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"has-text-color wp-block-heading" style&equals;"color&colon;&num;362a2a&semi;font-size&colon;14px"><strong>He was 30 at the time and offered her a ride home from a bar where she was &&num;8216&semi;highly intoxicated&&num;8217&semi; with friends <&sol;strong><&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"has-text-color wp-block-heading" style&equals;"color&colon;&num;362a2a&semi;font-size&colon;14px"><strong>Instead&comma; she claims he drove to his home and raped her which resulted in pregnancy  <&sol;strong><&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"has-text-color wp-block-heading" style&equals;"color&colon;&num;362a2a&semi;font-size&colon;14px"><strong>Abelseth said she never told her attacker about the baby but he found out in 2011 <&sol;strong><&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"has-text-color wp-block-heading" style&equals;"color&colon;&num;362a2a&semi;font-size&colon;14px"><strong>Four years later&comma; and demanded custodial rights&comma; <strong>she then filed a police report disclosing the rape&comma; but he&&num;8217&semi;s never been charged <&sol;strong> <&sol;strong><&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"has-text-color wp-block-heading" style&equals;"color&colon;&num;362a2a&semi;font-size&colon;14px"><strong>Now&comma; she has been ordered to share custody of the child and pay Barnes child support by <strong>Judge Jeffrey Cashe <&sol;strong> <&sol;strong><&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"has-text-color wp-block-heading" style&equals;"color&colon;&num;362a2a&semi;font-size&colon;14px"><strong>Judge Cashe she claims&comma; made the ruling after Barnes complained that Abelseth gave the daughter a cell phone <&sol;strong><&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"has-text-color wp-block-heading" style&equals;"color&colon;&num;362a2a&semi;font-size&colon;14px"><strong>Abelseth has appealed the decision&comma; maintaining that&period; Barnes should have been charged with&comma; at least statutory rape&comma; because she was under 17 at the time<&sol;strong><&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"has-text-color wp-block-heading" style&equals;"color&colon;&num;362a2a&semi;font-size&colon;14px"><strong>Under Louisiana&&num;8217&semi;s statutory rape laws&comma; &lbrack;Carnal Knowledge of a Juvenile&rsqb;&comma; anyone under the age of 17 is automatically a victim&comma; if they have sex with an adult  <&sol;strong><&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"has-text-color wp-block-heading" style&equals;"color&colon;&num;362a2a&semi;font-size&colon;14px"><strong>Flouting the Carnal Knowledge law is punishable by up to ten years in prison and a fine of &dollar;5&comma;000&period;  <&sol;strong><&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<figure class&equals;"wp-block-image size-full is-resized"><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2022&sol;06&sol;Crysta-Abelseth-left-and-John-Barnes-right-1&period;jpg" alt&equals;"" class&equals;"wp-image-409874" width&equals;"840" height&equals;"543"&sol;><figcaption><strong>Crysta Abelseth&comma; &lbrack;left&rsqb;&comma; now 32&comma; claims that John Barnes&comma; &lbrack;right&rsqb; now 46&comma; raped her in 2005 after she accepted a ride home from him from a restaurant where she&&num;8217&semi;d been having dinner with a friend&period; The rape resulted in a child whom he ignored for a decade&period; He successfully applied for shared custody in 2015&period; A Louisiana judge has granted Barnes full custody and ordered her to pay child support to her alleged rapist <&sol;strong><&sol;figcaption><&sol;figure>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">A Louisiana woman who claims she was raped as a teen by a 30-year-old-man&comma; making her a mother at 16&comma; has been ordered to give up custody of their daughter sixteen years later and pay him child support in a cruel legal twist&period; <br>Crysta Abelseth&comma; now 32&comma; claims that 46-year-old John Barnes raped her in 2005 after she accepted a ride home from him from a bar where she had been drinking with friends&period; <br>She was 16 at the time and had been in the bar with friends&period; <br>Six years later&comma; she says he found out about the baby but did nothing about it until 2015&comma; when he suddenly requested 50&sol;50 custody&period; <br>The application prompted Abelseth to file a police report&comma; alleging the rape ten years prior&period;<br>Paradoxically a judge has ordered Abelseth to relinquish custody of the her now teenage daughter and pay Barnes child support&comma; she told local network <a rel&equals;"noreferrer noopener" href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;wbrz&period;com&sol;news&sol;investigative-unit-rape-victim-ordered-to-pay-her-abuser-child-support&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank">WBRZ<&sol;a>&period; <br>It was after he complained to a judge that she gave the16-year-old girl a cell phone&period; <br>Abelseth is now campaigning to win back her rights&comma; and to see him prosecuted&period;    <br>She has also appealed Judge Cashe&&num;8217&semi;s decision and has a court hearing scheduled for July&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<figure class&equals;"wp-block-image size-full is-resized"><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2022&sol;06&sol;Crysta-Abelseth-and-her-daughter-1&period;jpg" alt&equals;"" class&equals;"wp-image-409873" width&equals;"839" height&equals;"822"&sol;><figcaption><strong>Crysta Abelseth&comma; shown &lbrack;photo&rsqb;&comma; with the daughter she had with Barnes in 2005&period; The child resulting from the rape is now 16 and and the father has been full granted custody&period;<&sol;strong> <strong>She was 16 at the time<&sol;strong>&comma; and t<strong>he legal age of consent in Louisiana is 17<&sol;strong><&sol;figcaption><&sol;figure>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<figure class&equals;"wp-block-image size-full is-resized"><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2022&sol;06&sol;Crysta-Abelseth-filed-this-police-report-in-2015-alleging-that-she-had-been-raped-five-years-earlier-1&period;jpg" alt&equals;"" class&equals;"wp-image-409883" width&equals;"829" height&equals;"788"&sol;><figcaption><strong>Crysta Abelseth filed this police report in 2015&comma; alleging that she had been raped by John Barnes five years earlier&comma; which resulted in her becoming a teen mother&comma; at the age of 16 <&sol;strong><&sol;figcaption><&sol;figure>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<figure class&equals;"wp-block-image size-full is-resized"><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2022&sol;06&sol;DNA-result-confirming-John-Barnes-fathered-Crysta-Abelseths-daughter-1&period;jpg" alt&equals;"" class&equals;"wp-image-409885" width&equals;"840" height&equals;"1092"&sol;><figcaption><strong>The DNA test that proves that Barnes fathered the daughter Crysta Abelseth had as an underage teen<&sol;strong><&sol;figcaption><&sol;figure>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<figure class&equals;"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-embed-handler wp-block-embed-embed-handler wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio"><div class&equals;"wp-block-embed&lowbar;&lowbar;wrapper">&NewLine;<span class&equals;"embed-youtube" style&equals;"text-align&colon;center&semi; display&colon; block&semi;"><amp-youtube data-videoid&equals;"yBmUbDkYkWE&quest;rel&equals;0&amp&semi;showinfo&equals;1&amp&semi;hl&equals;en-US" data-param-rel&equals;"1" data-param-showsearch&equals;"0" data-param-showinfo&equals;"1" data-param-iv&lowbar;load&lowbar;policy&equals;"1" data-param-fs&equals;"1" data-param-hl&equals;"en-US" data-param-autohide&equals;"2" data-param-wmode&equals;"transparent" width&equals;"620" height&equals;"349" layout&equals;"responsive"><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;youtube&period;com&sol;watch&quest;v&equals;yBmUbDkYkWErel0showinfo1hlen-US" placeholder><amp-img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;i&period;ytimg&period;com&sol;vi&sol;yBmUbDkYkWErel0showinfo1hlen-US&sol;hqdefault&period;jpg" rel&equals;"prettyPhoto"><noscript><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;i&period;ytimg&period;com&sol;vi&sol;yBmUbDkYkWErel0showinfo1hlen-US&sol;hqdefault&period;jpg" loading&equals;"lazy" decoding&equals;"async" alt&equals;"YouTube Poster"><&sol;noscript><&sol;amp-img><&sol;a><&sol;amp-youtube><&sol;span>&NewLine;<&sol;div><&sol;figure>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Abelseth did not explain whether or not she physically consented to the sexual encounter in 2015 which occurred when she was 16 &&num;8211&semi; a year under the legal age of consent in Louisiana&period; However&comma; Barnes was never charged despite Louisiana&&num;8217&semi;s statutory rape laws that clearly states that anyone under the age of 17 is automatically a victim&comma; if they have sex with an adult&period; <br>Known as the Carnal Knowledge Law&comma; it<strong> <&sol;strong>applies to anyone caught in a relationship with sa minor&comma; even if they are not aware of the age of the other party&period; <br>In her 2015 police report&comma; the 32-year-old states how she was &&num;8216&semi;highly intoxicated&&num;8217&semi; when Barnes took her back to his home after meeting her in the bar where she&&num;8217&semi;d been drinking with friends&period; <br>&&num;8216&semi;On December 13th&comma; 2005&comma; I was out at a bar with friends&period; We were drinking and highly intoxicated&period; The driver left &lbrack;the other friend&rsqb; and I at the bar&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<figure class&equals;"wp-block-image size-full is-resized"><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2022&sol;06&sol;Jeffrey-Cashe-3&period;jpg" alt&equals;"" class&equals;"wp-image-409880" width&equals;"754" height&equals;"754"&sol;><figcaption><strong>The ruling by Judge Jeffrey Cashe &lbrack;photo&rsqb; of Louisiana&&num;8217&semi;s 21st Judicial District Court<&sol;strong> <strong>grants Barnes full custody he fathered with Abelseth&period; It also forces the mother to pay child support to his alleged rapist&comma; in what her advocates have branded an outrageous miscarriage of justice&period; Abelseth has appealed the decision<&sol;strong><&sol;figcaption><&sol;figure>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">&&num;8216&semi;John Barnes offered to take me home&period; Instead of bringing me to my house&comma; John Barnes brought me to his home&period;  <br>&&num;8216&semi;He proceeded to rape me&comma;&&num;8217&semi; she told cops&period; <br>She claims that once she found out she was pregnant&comma; she let relatives believe that the baby&&num;8217&semi;s father was a boyfriend&period;   <br>&&num;8216&semi;Everyone assumed it &lbrack;the pregnancy&rsqb; was from a boyfriend&comma; and I let them believe that&period; <br>&&num;8216&semi;When my daughter was five years old&comma; he found out about her&comma; and once he found out about her&comma; he pursued custody and wanted to take her away from me&period; <br>Despite filing the rape report and it being within the state&&num;8217&semi;s statute of limitations&comma; Barnes was never charged and in 2015&comma; he was given 50&sol;50 custody&period;  <br>The pair have shared custody for seven years but this year&comma; Barnes obtained full custody&period; <br>He complained to Judge Jeffrey Cashe that the girl&&num;8217&semi;s mother gave her a cell phone&period; <br>Now Abelseth is fighting to regain custody of her daughter&period; <br>She believes that a sexual assault report she filed against him with Tangipahoa Parish Sheriff&&num;8217&semi;s Office has not been thoroughly investigated&period; <br>&&num;8216&semi;It was never assigned to a detective&comma; and nothing was ever investigated&comma;&&num;8217&semi; Abelseth alleged&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<figure class&equals;"wp-block-image size-full is-resized"><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2022&sol;06&sol;John-Barnes-2&period;jpg" alt&equals;"" class&equals;"wp-image-409879" width&equals;"837" height&equals;"898"&sol;><figcaption><strong>Full child custody and no charges&colon; John Paul Barnes &lbrack;photo&rsqb;&comma; he has never been charged with rape&comma; despite admitting to fathering a child with a girl under the legal age of consent&period; He was 30 at the time&period; Abelseth was 16 <&sol;strong><&sol;figcaption><&sol;figure>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Barnes&comma; now 46&comma; has never been charged with rape&comma; despite admitting to fathering the teen when her mother was under the legal age of consent&period; <br>Louisiana has statutory rape laws known as Carnal Knowledge of a Juvenile which dictate that anyone under the age of 17 is automatically a victim if they have sex with an adult&comma; regardless of whether or not they physically consented to it&period;  <br>The crime is a felony punishable by up to ten years in prison and a fine of &dollar;5&comma;000&period; <br>Not knowing whether the victim is under 17 at the time of the crime is not a defense&period; <br>It&&num;8217&semi;s unclear why Barnes was never charged after staking claim to the child&comma; and after DNA proved he was the father&period;  <br>Abelseth said&comma; &&num;8216&semi;He&&num;8217&semi;s &lbrack;Barnes&rsqb;&comma; threatened me multiple times&comma; saying he has connections in the justice system&comma; so I better be careful and he can take her away anytime he wants to&period;  <br>&&num;8216&semi;I didn&&num;8217&semi;t believe him until it happened&period;&&num;8217&semi; <br>The Tangipahoa Parish sheriff&&num;8217&semi;s department told WBRZ that the investigation into Abelseth&&num;8217&semi;s claims was &&num;8216&semi;open and ongoing&&num;8217&semi; &&num;8211&semi; but has not moved since 2015&period;  <br>Abelseth said she didn&&num;8217&semi;t think she could file a criminal complaint against Barnes after the day of the assault&comma; and only found out that the statute of limitations would allow her to do so through a trauma counselor&period; <br>&&num;8216&semi;I thought if I didn&&num;8217&semi;t do it the next day&comma; there was nothing I could do about it&period; <br>&&num;8216&semi;I went to a trauma counselor&comma; and he said&comma; &&num;8220&semi;No&comma; you have 30 years after you turn 18&period;&&num;8221&semi; <br>Although Barnes has admitted he is the biological father of his child with Abelseth&comma; he has not been charged statutory rape&comma; nor made to answer to her allegations of rape&period; <br><br><&sol;p>&NewLine;

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