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The Tragic Bridesmaid: Hanged herself after struggling to cope with seeing her friends get married while she failed to find a partner

&Tab;&Tab;<div class&equals;"wpcnt">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<div class&equals;"wpa">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<span class&equals;"wpa-about">Advertisements<&sol;span>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<div class&equals;"u top&lowbar;amp">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<amp-ad width&equals;"300" height&equals;"265"&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab; type&equals;"pubmine"&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab; data-siteid&equals;"109460728"&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab; data-section&equals;"1">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;amp-ad>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;div><div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-img-group floatRHS">&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-img"><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"imageCaption">&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;small&semi;"><b>Business development manager Danielle Saul&comma; 31&comma; was found hanged in her Manchester apartment following a night out with friends in June last year<&sol;b><&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3 id&equals;"ext-gen140"><span style&equals;"color&colon;&num;134f5c&semi;">    Danielle Saul&comma; 31&comma; found in her Manchester flat following a night out with friends<&sol;span><i><br &sol;>&NewLine;<span style&equals;"color&colon;&num;660000&semi;">    She had told her best friend she felt &&num;8216&semi;like dying&&num;8217&semi; and longed to settle down<br &sol;>&NewLine;As those closest to her married she remained single and longed for her ex<br &sol;>&NewLine;Bumped into former partner on a night out but the pair failed to reconcile<br &sol;>&NewLine;Her body was found hanged in her apartment three days later by a friend <&sol;span><&sol;i><&sol;h3>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font">&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;"><img class&equals;"alignnone size-full wp-image-25901" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2016&sol;03&sol;danielle-saul2&period;jpg" alt&equals;"Danielle-Saul2" width&equals;"544" height&equals;"870" &sol;><br &sol;>&NewLine;A bridesmaid struggling to get over a break-up while all her best friends were getting married died when a &&num;8216&semi;cry for help&&num;8217&semi; attempt to take her own life accidentally succeeded&comma; a coroner ruled&period; <&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">Business development manager Danielle Saul&comma; 31&comma; was found hanged in her Manchester apartment following a night out with friends in June last year&period;<&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">Friends and family knew at the time that she was desperate to follow all those closest to her by settling down to marry&period;<&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">However&comma; she was single and said to have been finding it difficult to move on from a previous relationship that ended five years earlier&period;<&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">After meeting her ex on the night in question&comma; she invited him and his friends back to her flat in Fallowfield to continue drinking&period;<&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">But when they failed to reconcile and he left the following morning&comma; Ms Saul took her own life&period;<&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><img class&equals;"alignnone size-full wp-image-25902" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2016&sol;03&sol;danielle-saul5&period;jpg" alt&equals;"Danielle-Saul5" width&equals;"590" height&equals;"565" &sol;><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">Her body was found hanged in the flat three days later by a friend who had become concerned after not hearing from her&period;<&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">An inquest&comma; however&comma; concluded that Ms Saul&&num;8217&semi;s death was misadventure rather than suicide&period; Coroner Jean Harkin said there was not enough evidence to prove that she had died as the result of a deliberate act&period;<&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font">&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"imageCaption">&NewLine;<div id&equals;"attachment&lowbar;25903" style&equals;"width&colon; 582px" class&equals;"wp-caption alignnone"><img aria-describedby&equals;"caption-attachment-25903" class&equals;"alignnone size-full wp-image-25903" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2016&sol;03&sol;danielle-saul3&period;jpg" alt&equals;"Danielle-Saul3" width&equals;"572" height&equals;"527" &sol;><p id&equals;"caption-attachment-25903" class&equals;"wp-caption-text">Facebook pictures from open profile of Daniele Saul&comma; a bachelor girl who longed to be a bride only to hang herself when she struggled to cope with her all her girlfriends getting married&period; Business development manager Danielle Saul&comma; 31&comma; had been ambitious&comma; bright and fun-loving when at work and socialising but secretly longed to settle down and marry&period; She eventually began to sink into a depression as her friends started to wed while she lived alone with her cat&period;<&sol;p><&sol;div>&NewLine;<p><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;small&semi;"><b>After meeting her ex on the night in question&comma; Ms Saul invited him and his friends back to her flat in Fallowfield to continue drinking&period; But when they failed to reconcile and he left the following morning&comma; she took her own life<&sol;b><&sol;span><br &sol;>&NewLine;<span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">Addressing the hearing&comma; Ms Harkin said&colon; &&num;8216&semi;It is clear she was experiencing some stresses at work and in her personal relationships&period;<&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">&&num;8216&semi;It is clear that her family don&&num;8217&semi;t believe she intended to take her own life&period;<&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">&&num;8216&semi;I must be satisfied that Danielle intended to die by the act&period; I don&&num;8217&semi;t feel I have the evidence beyond reasonable doubt that she intended to die&period; I believe the evidence points to an attempt&period;<&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">&&num;8216&semi;I believe alcohol may have had an intoxicating impact whereby the full outcome of her actions may not have been totally realised&period;&&num;8217&semi; <&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><img class&equals;"alignnone wp-image-25908" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2016&sol;03&sol;danielle-saul7&period;jpg" alt&equals;"Danielle-Saul7" width&equals;"682" height&equals;"454" &sol;><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">Ms Saul &&num;8211&semi; who graduated from Edge Hill University in Liverpool with a degree in education and art and began working in recruitment &&num;8211&semi; was described as being ambitious&comma; bright and fun-loving when at work and socialising but secretly longed to settle down and marry&period;<&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">In the years proceeding her death&comma; she was invited to several hen parties and weddings and was asked to be bridesmaid to her best friend&period; <&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">However&comma; she herself was single and lived alone with her cat&comma; leaving her to sink into a state of depression&period;<&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">On separate occasions&comma; she sent messages to a friend saying&comma; &&num;8216&semi;I feel like dying&&num;8217&semi;&comma; and a photograph of herself crying&period;<&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">When the group of friends went out in June last year&comma; Ms Saul bumped into her former long-term boyfriend&period;<&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">She invited the unnamed man and his friends back to the flat she owned for further drinks but became upset when he left the following day &&num;8211&semi; leading her to believe they would never be getting back together&period;<&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"imageCaption"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;small&semi;"><b><img class&equals;"alignnone size-full wp-image-25904" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2016&sol;03&sol;danielle-saul6&period;jpg" alt&equals;"Danielle-Saul6" width&equals;"615" height&equals;"1060" &sol;><br &sol;>&NewLine;Friends and family knew Ms Saul was desperate to follow all those closest to her by settling down to marry&period; However&comma; she was single and said to have been finding it difficult to move on from a previous relationship that ended five years earlier<&sol;b><&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">At some point over the next 72 hours&comma; she ended her life&period;<&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">Her mother Karen Saul&comma; from Preston&comma; Lancashire&comma; told the inquest&colon; &&num;8216&semi;She had had a couple of long-term relationships&comma; one of which was around five years ago&comma; and then that broke up but she still had feelings for him and found it difficult&period;<&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">&&num;8216&semi;I think she had an overload that weekend with the upset from her previous relationship&period; She had met up with that person and I think she hoped they would get back together&period;<&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">&&num;8216&semi;She had a difficult time at work a few months prior to that in her previous job where she had a very difficult bullying boss who got her upset&period;<&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">&&num;8216&semi;I believe she went to the doctors about that in November 2014&comma; and it seems around then three or four of her best friends got married&period;<&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">&&num;8216&semi;At the time quite a number of her friends were getting married and she was going to hen parties and she was going to be bridesmaid and I think she got overloaded with these things and emotionally things became exaggerated&period;&&num;8217&semi;<&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"artSplitter mol-img-group">&NewLine;<div class&equals;"splitLeft">&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-img">&NewLine;<div class&equals;"image-wrap fff-pic" style&equals;"cursor&colon;pointer&semi;"><img class&equals;"alignnone size-full wp-image-25905" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2016&sol;03&sol;danielle-saul4&period;jpg" alt&equals;"Danielle-Saul4" width&equals;"1500" height&equals;"1991" &sol;><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;small&semi;"><b>A post-mortem exam revealed Ms Saul had 162mg of alcohol in 100mg of blood&comma; more than double the legal driving limit &&num;8211&semi; raising fears she &&num;8216&semi;impulsively&&num;8217&semi; took the decision as a &&num;8216&semi;cry for help&&num;8217&semi;&period; No note was found with her body<&sol;b><&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">A post-mortem exam revealed Ms Saul had 162mg of alcohol in 100mg of blood&comma; more than double the legal driving limit &&num;8211&semi; raising fears she &&num;8216&semi;impulsively&&num;8217&semi; took the decision as a &&num;8216&semi;cry for help&&num;8217&semi;&period; No note was found with her body&period;<&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">Speaking of her daughter&&num;8217&semi;s possible intentions&comma; Mrs Saul added&colon; &&num;8216&semi;It might have been a permanent solution to a temporary problem&period; Had she talked about it we would have been there for her&period;&&num;8217&semi;<&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">Ms Saul&&num;8217&semi;s best friend Lucy Nixon&comma; who had known her for 15 years&comma; said the pair met up before their planned night out on the Saturday&period;<&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">She said&colon; &&num;8216&semi;She was very down&period;<&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">&&num;8216&semi;She always used very intensive words and we were expressive with one another&period; Saying &&num;8220&semi;I feel like dying&&num;8221&semi; would not be unusual&period;<&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">&&num;8216&semi;She sent me a photo of herself crying on Saturday&period; Going for drinks would be a huge distraction and she wouldn&&num;8217&semi;t bring that up&period; She did tell me in 2014 that she wanted to see a counsellor because she needed to deal with her demons&period;&&num;8217&semi; <&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"mol-para-with-font"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;1&period;2em&semi;">Ms Harkin recorded a conclusion of death by misadventure&period;<&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div style&equals;"background-color&colon;white&semi;color&colon;black&semi;overflow&colon;hidden&semi;text-align&colon;left&semi;text-decoration&colon;none&semi;"><span style&equals;"font-size&colon;small&semi;"><i><b>Lets us know what you think of this article&period; Like&quest; Dislike&quest; Funny&quest; Interesting&quest; Cool&quest;  Drop us a line in the comment box or join us on facebook and twitter to help us give you a better reading experience <&sol;b><&sol;i><&sol;span><&sol;div>&NewLine;

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