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“Man, Woman, They”: Meet Jamie Shupe, the first legally gender-less person in the US

&Tab;&Tab;<div class&equals;"wpcnt">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<div class&equals;"wpa">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<span class&equals;"wpa-about">Advertisements<&sol;span>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<div class&equals;"u top&lowbar;amp">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<amp-ad width&equals;"300" height&equals;"265"&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab; type&equals;"pubmine"&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab; data-siteid&equals;"109460728"&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab; data-section&equals;"1">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;amp-ad>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;div><header class&equals;"content&lowbar;&lowbar;head tonal&lowbar;&lowbar;head tonal&lowbar;&lowbar;head--tone-news ">&NewLine;<div class&equals;"content&lowbar;&lowbar;header tonal&lowbar;&lowbar;header">&NewLine;<div class&equals;"gs-container">&NewLine;<div class&equals;"content&lowbar;&lowbar;main-column u-cf">&NewLine;<h3 class&equals;"content&lowbar;&lowbar;headline js-score"><span style&equals;"color&colon;&num;825610&semi;">Former army sergeant&comma; 52&comma; becomes first legally non-binary person in the US<&sol;span><&sol;h3>&NewLine;<h3 class&equals;"content&lowbar;&lowbar;headline js-score"><span style&equals;"color&colon;&num;825610&semi;">Oregon judge grants Jamie Shupe&&num;8217&semi;s petition to identify as neither male nor female<&sol;span><&sol;h3>&NewLine;<h3 class&equals;"content&lowbar;&lowbar;headline js-score"><span style&equals;"color&colon;&num;825610&semi;">Married with one child&comma;  still with spouse of 3 decades<br &sol;>&NewLine;<&sol;span><&sol;h3>&NewLine;<h3 class&equals;"content&lowbar;&lowbar;headline js-score"><span style&equals;"color&colon;&num;825610&semi;">Vet Shupe&comma; joined army as a male&comma; was discharged as female&comma; says &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;I’m not a male&period; I’m not a female&period;”<&sol;span><&sol;h3>&NewLine;<h3 class&equals;"content&lowbar;&lowbar;headline js-score"><span style&equals;"color&colon;&num;825610&semi;">He  had asked court to grant a non-binary sex classification<&sol;span><br &sol;>&NewLine;<span style&equals;"color&colon;&num;825610&semi;">Historic decision completes Shupe’s gender transition from male to female&comma; then &&num;8216&semi;they&&num;8217&semi;<&sol;span><&sol;h3>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;header>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"content&lowbar;&lowbar;main tonal&lowbar;&lowbar;main tonal&lowbar;&lowbar;main--tone-news">&NewLine;<div class&equals;"gs-container">&NewLine;<div class&equals;"content&lowbar;&lowbar;main-column content&lowbar;&lowbar;main-column--article js-content-main-column ">&NewLine;<figure id&equals;"img-1" class&equals;"media-primary media-content&lpar;&rpar; ">&NewLine;<h6 class&equals;"u-responsive-ratio"><&sol;h6><figcaption class&equals;"caption caption--main caption--img">&NewLine;<h6><strong><img class&equals;"alignnone size-full wp-image-35131" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2016&sol;06&sol;jamie-shupe-with-spouse-sandy-shupe&period;jpg" alt&equals;"Jamie Shupe with spouse Sandy Shupe" width&equals;"1920" height&equals;"1152" &sol;>Jamie Shupe and  spouse Sandy Shupe<&sol;strong><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<&sol;figcaption><&sol;figure>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"content&lowbar;&lowbar;article-body from-content-api js-article&lowbar;&lowbar;body">&NewLine;<p>An Oregon judge today declared Jamie Shupe could legally shed the designation of male or female&comma; Shupe felt free&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;An elated Shupe said &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;I have my life back&comma;”   &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;I’m not a male&period; I’m not a female&period;” As a transgender person with male biology and distinctly feminine traits&comma; I believe myself to be a unique variation of nature&period; I am not ashamed of who I am&period; I was not born into the wrong body&period; My genitals are not a birth defect&period; And I am not to be sterilized by psychiatry and a medical establishment that has run amok&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h6><strong><img class&equals;"alignnone size-full wp-image-35144" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2016&sol;06&sol;jamie-shupe3&period;jpg" alt&equals;"jamie shupe3" width&equals;"640" height&equals;"640" &sol;><br &sol;>&NewLine;<&sol;strong><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<h6><strong>Army Sergeant Shupe&comma; 49 years living as a man<&sol;strong><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<p>After a historic court ruling&comma; I am free&period; I am the first non-binary person in the United States to be officially recognized&period; I refused to be classified&period; And now&comma; I’ve been vindicated&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Shupe appears to be the first person in the United States who has successfully petitioned for a non-binary gender classification&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Classic gender markers don’t fit everybody&comma;” Gorenberg said&comma; calling the petition significant for helping people &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;exist without labels that don’t accurately describe them”&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;At a recent support group meeting in Portland&comma; where Shupe lives&comma; a young woman tearfully thanked Shupe for broadening the conversation about gender classifications&period; Shupe&comma; a former army sergeant assigned male at birth and listed as female in discharge papers&comma; told the woman&comma; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;I didn’t do this just for myself&period;”<br &sol;>&NewLine;Shupe&comma; who prefers the pronoun &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;they”&comma; grew up in southern Maryland&comma; in a family with eight children&period; Shupe recalls feeling like an outcast&comma; being admonished for acting like a &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;sissy” and without any role models&comma; struggling to articulate feelings of a gender mismatch&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h6><img class&equals;"alignnone size-full wp-image-35143" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2016&sol;06&sol;jamie-shupe4&period;jpg" alt&equals;"jamie shupe4" width&equals;"2048" height&equals;"1536" &sol;><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<h6>Jamie Shupe&comma; 3 years living as a woman<&sol;h6>&NewLine;<p>At age 49&comma; retired from the military&comma; married to a woman and raising a daughter&comma; Shupe began to unravel&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;I felt like I was at a breaking point&comma;” Shupe said&comma; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;like I was trapped&period;”<br &sol;>&NewLine;With a supportive spouse&comma; Shupe moved to a secluded cabin in the woods and began taking hormones&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;I figured I was a transgender woman&period; My thinking was&comma; well&comma; I’m not a male&comma;” Shupe said&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Sandy Shupe said the transition was difficult at times&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;This is the person I’ve spent most of my adult life with&comma;” she said&period; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;We have a child together&period; I have always said&comma; old age and rocking chairs&period; That’s still my thought&comma; old age and rocking chairs&period; When you love someone&comma; you want them to be at peace with themselves&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h6 id&equals;"img-2" class&equals;"element element-image img--landscape fig--narrow-caption fig--has-shares "><img class&equals;"alignnone wp-image-35133" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2016&sol;06&sol;jamie-shupe1&period;jpg" alt&equals;"jamie shupe1" width&equals;"673" height&equals;"404" &sol;>&&num;8216&semi;They&&num;8217&semi; Jamie Shupe&colon; &&num;8220&semi;I’m not male&period; I’m not female&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;h6>&NewLine;<p>Later&comma; Shupe realized the female designation also didn’t feel right&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;No amount of hormones is going to make me look like a female&comma;” Shupe said&comma; taking off a headscarf to reveal a bald head&period; Shupe doesn’t have plans or the desire to undergo surgery&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Now&comma; I’m suddenly telling my spouse I’m the same thing she is&quest; It didn’t make sense to me&period; I didn’t have the intricate knowledge like I do now that I could be other things&period;”<br &sol;>&NewLine;Shupe wanted another option&comma; a third classification&comma; and found an ally in Portland lawyer Lake Perriguey&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;I knew the law well enough to know there is no exclusion&comma; it’s not a complicated statute&comma;” Perriguey said&period; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;It’s two lines&period; People change their names&comma; the process to change your sex identity is the same as changing your name&period;”<br &sol;>&NewLine;Perriguey said initially he didn’t realize the historic significance of the case&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Not being a person of transgender experience&comma; I didn’t realize how confining the legal limit on your gender identity could be&comma;” he said&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h6><strong><img class&equals;"alignnone size-full wp-image-35142" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2016&sol;06&sol;jamie-shupe5&period;jpg" alt&equals;"jamie shupe5" width&equals;"806" height&equals;"1782" &sol;><&sol;strong><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<h6><strong>Jamie Shupe&comma; happiest gender neutral<&sol;strong><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<p>Shupe understood there are others with similar struggles and felt compelled to take the case to court&comma; steeling for a long-drawn-out fight&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Instead&comma; the petition was granted swiftly&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Multnomah County circuit court judge Amy Holmes Hehn granted the petition last week&comma; writing&colon; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;The sex of Jamie Shupe is hereby changed from female to non-binary&period; Notice of this legal change shall be posted in a public place in Multnomah County as required by law&period;”<br &sol;>&NewLine;Shupe’s legal tab was &dollar;1&comma;056&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Now&comma; at 52 years old&comma; Shupe said&comma; the petition &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;gives me a place to exist”&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"content&lowbar;&lowbar;main tonal&lowbar;&lowbar;main tonal&lowbar;&lowbar;main--tone-news"><&sol;div>&NewLine;

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