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Family of Texas woman Melissa Banda, sue cops after her nine futile calls for help before her ex-husband, Robert Ford, kidnapped, slit her throat, and dumped her body on the roadside – Suit alleges police, unlike victim, knew about Ford’s record of violence

&Tab;&Tab;<div class&equals;"wpcnt">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<div class&equals;"wpa">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<span class&equals;"wpa-about">Advertisements<&sol;span>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<div class&equals;"u top&lowbar;amp">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<amp-ad width&equals;"300" height&equals;"265"&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab; type&equals;"pubmine"&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab; data-siteid&equals;"109460728"&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab; data-section&equals;"1">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;amp-ad>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"wp-block-heading has-text-color" style&equals;"color&colon;&num;1f1516&semi;font-size&colon;14px"><strong>Family of murdered Texas mom-of-three sued cops after she called them nine times for help before her ex-husband abducted her&comma; only to dump her body <strong>on the side of the road<&sol;strong>side with her throat slit<&sol;strong><&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"wp-block-heading has-text-color" style&equals;"color&colon;&num;1f1516&semi;font-size&colon;14px"><strong>Melissa Banda&comma; 37&comma; was murdered On August 7<&sol;strong>&comma; <strong>by her estranged husband&comma; Richard Ford Jr&comma; 40&comma; whose<strong><strong> criminal background she allegedly&comma; did not know&comma; but police knew<&sol;strong><&sol;strong> <&sol;strong><&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"wp-block-heading has-text-color" style&equals;"color&colon;&num;1f1516&semi;font-size&colon;14px"><strong>Victim&&num;8217&semi;s sister&comma; Cynthia Banda&comma; sued McAllen PD alleging that Melissa phoned police numerous times to report that Ford had been harassing&comma; stalking and impersonating her online <&sol;strong><&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"wp-block-heading has-text-color" style&equals;"color&colon;&num;1f1516&semi;font-size&colon;14px"><strong>Banda filed for divorce from Ford on November 7&comma; 2019&comma; and obtained a temporary restraining order<&sol;strong><&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"wp-block-heading has-text-color" style&equals;"color&colon;&num;1f1516&semi;font-size&colon;14px"><strong>Fourteen days later&comma; Banda called McAllen police for protection from Ford because he was on his way to her house after being served with divorce papers<&sol;strong> <&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"wp-block-heading has-text-color" style&equals;"color&colon;&num;1f1516&semi;font-size&colon;14px"><strong>Ford compiled a record of stalking with electronic device&comma; impersonating online&comma; harassing and physical assaulting Banda since their divorce<&sol;strong><&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"wp-block-heading has-text-color" style&equals;"color&colon;&num;1f1516&semi;font-size&colon;14px"><strong>Ford grew progressively more violent&comma; the lawsuit claims&comma; as evidenced by a series of phone calls in 2020 detailing Ford&&num;8217&semi;s violations of the restraining order- <&sol;strong><&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"wp-block-heading has-text-color" style&equals;"color&colon;&num;1f1516&semi;font-size&colon;14px"><strong>Banda had made numerous calls to police report that Ford was serially violating the protective order<&sol;strong><&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"wp-block-heading has-text-color" style&equals;"color&colon;&num;1f1516&semi;font-size&colon;14px"><strong><strong>These incidents were all reported to police<&sol;strong> and Cynthia Banda is suing the McAllen PD of failing to offer her sister the protection that would have deterred the killer <&sol;strong><&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"wp-block-heading has-text-color" style&equals;"color&colon;&num;1f1516&semi;font-size&colon;14px"><strong>The suit further alleges that McAllen police&comma; unlike Banda&comma; were also aware of Ford&&num;8217&semi;s priors&comma;<strong> pleading guilty to attempted murder and assault in two separate cases <&sol;strong><&sol;strong><&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<figure class&equals;"wp-block-image size-full is-resized"><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2023&sol;10&sol;Melissa-Banda-2&period;png" alt&equals;"" class&equals;"wp-image-452639" style&equals;"width&colon;838px&semi;height&colon;901px" width&equals;"838" height&equals;"901"&sol;><&sol;figure>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-small-font-size"><strong>Melissa Banda&comma; 37&comma; was murdered in 2020&period; Her ex-husband Robert Ford is accused of kidnapping her before slitting her throat and dumping her body along the side of a road&period; Ford&&num;8217&semi;s priors include pleading guilty to the attempted murder of a man in 2002 as well as the assault of a different man&period; She was not aware of his chequered past&comma; but her sister&&num;8217&semi;s lawsuit accuses McAllen PD of being aware of both cases&period;<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>A Texas mother-of-three was murdered by her ex-husband after calling police nine times&comma; her family claims &&num;8211&semi; and now they are suing the city&period; <br>The body of Melissa Banda&comma; 37&comma; was found in bushes on the side of a rural road in August 2020 with her throat slit&period; Richard Ford Jr&period;&comma; 40&comma; Banda’s ex-husband&comma; was arrested and charged in connection to her death&period;<br>Her sister has filed a lawsuit against the City of McAllen&comma; claiming the McAllen Police Department &&num;8216&semi;did almost nothing to protect her&&num;8217&semi;&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<figure class&equals;"wp-block-image size-full is-resized"><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2023&sol;10&sol;Richard-Ford-1&period;png" alt&equals;"" class&equals;"wp-image-452640" style&equals;"width&colon;841px&semi;height&colon;682px" width&equals;"841" height&equals;"682"&sol;><&sol;figure>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-small-font-size"><strong>The victim&&num;8217&semi;s estranged husband&comma; Richard Ford Jr&period;&comma; &lbrack;photo&rsqb;&comma; previously pleading guilty to attempted murder and assault in two separate cases &&num;8211&semi; a criminal background that was allegedly not known to Banda&period; He is now charged with her murder&comma; assault&comma; stalking and violating a protective order<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>In her lawsuit Cynthia Banda alleges that despite the numerous calls her sister made to the McAllen Police Department between November 2019 and August 2020&comma; she got no help and was not offered any protective measures&period;<br>The suspect allegedly grabbed her and &&num;8216&semi;covered her mouth as she began to kick and scream&&num;8217&semi; before forcing her into the back of a white SUV&period;<br>The screams alerted Banda&&num;8217&semi;s nanny and neighbors&comma; who frantically phoned police and told them that she had just been abducted by Ford&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<figure class&equals;"wp-block-image size-full is-resized"><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2023&sol;10&sol;Melissa-Banda-left-with-her-sister-Cynthia-Banda-right-1&period;png" alt&equals;"" class&equals;"wp-image-452644" style&equals;"width&colon;828px&semi;height&colon;1206px" width&equals;"828" height&equals;"1206"&sol;><&sol;figure>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-small-font-size"><strong>Melissa Banda&&num;8217&semi;s sister Cynthia&comma; seen &lbrack;right&comma; with Melissa&rsqb;&comma; filed a lawsuit against the City of McAllen&comma; claiming the McAllen PD &&num;8216&semi;did almost nothing to protect her&&num;8217&semi; despite her numerous calls to the dept signalling her life was endangered by her estranged husband until he slit her throat<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>However&comma; this was not the first time McAllen PD had been informed of Ford&&num;8217&semi;s abuse against his ex-wife&comma; the suit alleges&period;<br>Banda filed for divorce from Ford on November 7&comma; 2019&comma; and obtained a temporary restraining order&period;<br>Fourteen days later&comma; Banda called McAllen police for protection from Ford because he was on his way to her house after being served with divorce papers&period;<br>Ford grew progressively more violent&comma; the lawsuit claims&comma; as evidenced by a series of phone calls in 2020&period;<br>In one incident from February 28&comma; 2020&comma; he choked Banda&comma; &&num;8216&semi;impeding her breathing&comma;&&num;8217&semi; while threatening to hurt their children if she reported the assault&period;<br>Still&comma; Banda called authorities and Ford was arrested the next day &&num;8211&semi; only to be released one day later&period;<br>On June 8&comma; Banda called again to report that Ford was stalking her while she was at a Gold’s Gym in McAllen&comma; the lawsuit claims&period;<br>On June 30&comma; she reportedly called police saying Ford had violated the protective order&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<figure class&equals;"wp-block-image size-full is-resized"><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2023&sol;10&sol;Melissa-Banda-right-with-her-sister-Cynthia-Banda-left-1&period;png" alt&equals;"" class&equals;"wp-image-452645" style&equals;"width&colon;839px&semi;height&colon;1293px" width&equals;"839" height&equals;"1293"&sol;><&sol;figure>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-small-font-size"><strong>The lawsuit alleges Melissa called police nine times between November 2019 and August 2020 &&num;8211&semi; even in the days leading up to her death<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<figure class&equals;"wp-block-image size-full is-resized"><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2023&sol;10&sol;Melissa-Banda-3&period;png" alt&equals;"" class&equals;"wp-image-452641" style&equals;"width&colon;782px&semi;height&colon;927px" width&equals;"782" height&equals;"927"&sol;><&sol;figure>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-small-font-size"><strong>The mother of three said&comma; on numerous occasions&comma; Ford was stalking her&comma; abusing her and impersonating her online<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>On July 7&comma; Banda told police she suspected Ford was using a photo of her on a website offering &&num;8216&semi;service from a female&comma;&&num;8217&semi; causing her to receive text messages&period;<br>A day later&comma; she reported that she thought Ford was stalking her and might have planted a tracking device on her vehicle&period;<br>On July 18&comma; she told police that he&comma; again&comma; violated the protective order&period;<br>Two days later&comma; she reported that she suspected that Ford was impersonating her online&period;<br>The day before a modification hearing for her divorce&comma; Banda told police that she suspected Ford had taken a car from her home&period;<br>The next day &&num;8211&semi; August 6 &&num;8211&semi; Banda went missing&period;<br>Hours after the hearing&comma; Ford is accused of driving to his estranged wife’s house and ambushing her as she arrived&period;<br>On August 7&comma; she was reported as a missing person by the McAllen Police Department&period;<br>Ford was arrested later that day in the resort town of South Padre Island&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<figure class&equals;"wp-block-image size-full is-resized"><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2023&sol;10&sol;Melissa-Banda-1-1&period;png" alt&equals;"" class&equals;"wp-image-452638" style&equals;"width&colon;841px&semi;height&colon;749px" width&equals;"841" height&equals;"749"&sol;><&sol;figure>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-small-font-size"><strong>On the day of her divorce hearing&comma; Ford drove to her house hours later and forced her into the back of an SUV&period; Her screams drew the attention of her nanny and neighbors&comma; who called police<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<figure class&equals;"wp-block-image is-resized"><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;i&period;dailymail&period;co&period;uk&sol;1s&sol;2023&sol;10&sol;11&sol;22&sol;76446591-12620421-image-m-101&lowbar;1697058398927&period;jpg" alt&equals;"Banda was reported as a missing person on August 7&period; Her sister claims the search party spent 30 hours looking for her" style&equals;"width&colon;843px&semi;height&colon;935px" width&equals;"843" height&equals;"935"&sol;><&sol;figure>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-small-font-size"><strong>Melissa Banda was reported as a missing person on August 7&period; Her sister claims the search party spent 30 hours looking for her<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>Two days after her kidnapping&comma; Banda&&num;8217&semi;s body was found&comma; according to the lawsuit&period;<br>Her sister claims they spent 30 hours looking for her&period;<br>&&num;8216&semi;I would have kept looking forever&comma;&&num;8217&semi; she wrote on Facebook&period; &&num;8216&semi;How I wished things would have been different&period;&&num;8217&semi;<br>The suit also accuses the police of having &&num;8216&semi;a policy or custom of treating domestic violence cases involving women and&sol;or Hispanic women less seriously than other types of assault cases&period;&&num;8217&semi; <br>Cynthia Banda is asking the court for compensatory damages and a reasonable attorney’s fee&comma; the lawsuit says&period;<br>She demands a trial by jury and is seeking damages for the &&num;8216&semi;mental anguish&comma; emotional pain&comma; torment and suffering that Banda suffered prior to her death&comma;&&num;8217&semi; as well as medical&comma; funeral and burial expenses&period;<br>Ford faces a slew of charges for his role in Banda&&num;8217&semi;s murder&period; This includes capital murder by terroristic threat in the course of aggravated kidnapping&semi; assault on a family member by impeding breath or circulation&semi; violation of a protective order involving stalking&semi; and stalking&period; <br>Ford has a checkered past that was allegedly unknown to Banda&period; <br>He pled guilty to the attempted murder of a man in 2002 as well as the assault of a different man&period;<br>The suit accuses McAllen PD of being aware of both cases&period; <br>On March 3&comma; 2021&comma; Ford pled not guilty to all counts&period; Jury selection has been scheduled for January 26&comma; 2024&comma; with a trial set to begin on January 29&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<figure class&equals;"wp-block-image size-full is-resized"><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2023&sol;10&sol;Melissa-Banda-4&period;png" alt&equals;"" class&equals;"wp-image-452648" style&equals;"width&colon;839px&semi;height&colon;1150px" width&equals;"839" height&equals;"1150"&sol;><&sol;figure>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-small-font-size"><strong>Two days after her alleged kidnapping&comma; Banda&&num;8217&semi;s body was found on the side of a rural road in the city of Donna&comma; Texas<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<figure class&equals;"wp-block-image size-full is-resized"><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2023&sol;10&sol;Melissa-Banda-5&period;png" alt&equals;"" class&equals;"wp-image-452647" style&equals;"width&colon;832px&semi;height&colon;1057px" width&equals;"832" height&equals;"1057"&sol;><&sol;figure>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-small-font-size"><strong>The lawsuit accuses the police of having &&num;8216&semi;a policy or custom of treating domestic violence cases involving women and&sol;or Hispanic women less seriously than other types of assault cases&&num;8217&semi;<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<figure class&equals;"wp-block-image size-full is-resized"><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2023&sol;10&sol;Melissa-Banda-portrait-1&period;png" alt&equals;"" class&equals;"wp-image-452646" style&equals;"width&colon;840px&semi;height&colon;1210px" width&equals;"840" height&equals;"1210"&sol;><&sol;figure>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-small-font-size"><strong>Banda&&num;8217&semi;s death was not the first of McAllen PD&&num;8217&semi;s alleged  transgressions &&num;8211&semi; the department has a sordid past&comma; as video surfaced in 1981 showing cops beating inmates without provocation<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>A GoFundMe from August 2020 raised just shy of its &dollar;35&comma;000 goal&period;<br>&&num;8216&semi;Melissa Banda was a young&comma; beautiful&comma; smart and kind woman&comma;&&num;8217&semi; it reads&period;<br>&&num;8216&semi;She was the mother of 3 children &lpar;ages 6&comma; 10 and 12&rpar; who meant the world to her&excl; She coached her daughters&&num;8217&semi; soccer team&comma; worked full time&comma; and was always willing to help out those less fortunate&period;&&num;8217&semi;<br>All of the money would go to Cynthia&comma; &&num;8216&semi;as the sole beneficiary to help support Melissa&&num;8217&semi;s children during this difficult time&period;&&num;8217&semi;<br>This is not the first time the McAllen Police Department has landed in hot water&period;<br>It suffered lasting damage to its reputation in 1981&comma; when television stations broadcast videotapes made by the department between 1974 and 1979&period;<br>They were recorded by a television camera that had been set up over the booking area at the police station to protect officers from brutality claims &&num;8211&semi; but they captured numerous occasions of officers beating prisoners&period;<br>Cynthia has been writing tributes to her sister every year since her murder&period;<br>On August 6&comma; third anniversary of her sister&&num;8217&semi;s death&comma; she wrote&colon; &&num;8216&semi;At exactly 2pm on this day was the last time I’d tell you I love you&comma; laugh&comma; smile and hug you&period;<br>&&num;8216&semi;I hope you know how much we really MISS YOU&period;<br>&&num;8216&semi;We love you Sister&period; What I’d give to have you here with me but I know one day we’ll see you again&period;&&num;8217&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;

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