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New book explores how Portland mom, Amanda Stott-Smith, early one morning, threw her children off a bridge into an icy river – Leaving everyone still guessing why

&Tab;&Tab;<div class&equals;"wpcnt">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<div class&equals;"wpa">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<span class&equals;"wpa-about">Advertisements<&sol;span>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<div class&equals;"u top&lowbar;amp">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<amp-ad width&equals;"300" height&equals;"265"&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab; type&equals;"pubmine"&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab; data-siteid&equals;"109460728"&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab; data-section&equals;"1">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;amp-ad>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;div><header id&equals;"top" class&equals;"top full-columns">&NewLine;<div id&equals;"f04dTBddziHtVq" class&equals;"wrapper clearfix full pb-feature pb-layout-item pb-f-article-header" data-pb-name&equals;"Article Header" data-pb-curated&equals;"curated">&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card">&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card-content align-left">&NewLine;<h6 class&equals;"content-hed standard-hed"><span style&equals;"color&colon; &num;000000&semi;"><strong>Amanda Jo &&num;8216&semi;Mandy&&num;8217&semi; Stott-Smith&comma; was a loving mother-of-three&comma; who attempted to murder her children in a case that has left many people baffled <&sol;strong><&sol;span><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<h6 class&equals;"content-hed standard-hed"><span style&equals;"color&colon; &num;000000&semi;"><strong>Author Nancy Rommelmann’s in her new book &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;To the Bridge”&comma; explores the morphology of the crime and the extent of the punishment<&sol;strong><&sol;span><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<h6 class&equals;"content-hed standard-hed"><span style&equals;"color&colon; &num;000000&semi;"><strong>Around after 1 am on May 23&comma; 2009&comma; she drove to Portland’s Sellwood Bridge and dropped her kids into icy waters<&sol;strong><&sol;span><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<h6 class&equals;"content-hed standard-hed"><span style&equals;"color&colon; &num;000000&semi;"><strong>Stott-Smith&comma; then 31&comma; threw daughter Trinity&comma; 7&comma; and 4-year-old son Eldon Smith into the freezing Milwaukee river and drove off<&sol;strong><&sol;span><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<h6 class&equals;"spaced spaced-xl spaced-top spaced-bottom"><span style&equals;"color&colon; &num;000000&semi;"><strong>Trapped in a violent&comma; abusive marriage&comma; Amanda Stott-Smith reportedly&comma; suffered from depress an found solace in drinking and drug<&sol;strong><strong>s<&sol;strong><&sol;span><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<h6 class&equals;"spaced spaced-xl spaced-top spaced-bottom"><span style&equals;"color&colon; &num;000000&semi;">Trinity survived the murder attempt&comma; her brother Eldon&comma; 4&comma; perished so Stott-Smith was only charged with murdering one of child <&sol;span><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<h6 class&equals;"spaced spaced-xl spaced-top spaced-bottom"><span style&equals;"color&colon; &num;000000&semi;">in 2010&comma; at the age of 32&comma; she was sentenced to life&comma; with the possibility of parole after 35 years <&sol;span><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<h6 class&equals;"spaced spaced-xl spaced-top spaced-bottom"><span style&equals;"color&colon; &num;000000&semi;"><span class&equals;"photo-breakout photo-center large"><span class&equals;"caption">Stott- Smith pled guilty to one count of aggravated murder in the death of 4-year-old Eldon Jay Rebhan Smith and one count of attempted aggravated murder of his 7-year-old sister<&sol;span><&sol;span><&sol;span><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;header>&NewLine;<section id&equals;"left" class&equals;"left guttered width-100">&NewLine;<div id&equals;"f0AWCErdziHtVq" class&equals;"wrapper clearfix full pb-feature pb-layout-item pb-f-article-body" data-pb-name&equals;"Article Body &lpar;Elements&rpar;" data-pb-curated&equals;"curated">&NewLine;<div class&equals;"collection collection-cards">&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card collection-item" data-type&equals;"text">&NewLine;<div class&equals;" card-content ">&NewLine;<h6><b><img class&equals;"alignnone wp-image-295513" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2018&sol;06&sol;Amanda-Stott-Smith-2&period;jpg" alt&equals;"Amanda Stott Smith 2&period;jpg" width&equals;"675" height&equals;"900" &sol;>Portland mom Amanda Stott-Smith &lbrack;photo&rsqb;&comma; succeeded in drowning one of her kids&comma; the other survived after she threw them off a bridge in the dead of the night<&sol;b><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card collection-item" data-type&equals;"text">&NewLine;<div class&equals;" card-content ">&NewLine;<p>The reasons why Portland mom Amanda Stott-Smith&comma; succeeded in drowning one of her kids&comma; the other survived after she threw them off a bridge in the dead of the night&comma; are explored by Nancy Rommelmann’s in her new book &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;To the Bridge”&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card collection-item" data-type&equals;"text">&NewLine;<div class&equals;" card-content ">&NewLine;<p>Shortly after 1 a&period;m&period; on May 23&comma; 2009&comma; Stott-Smith&comma; parked on the Sellwood Bridge in Portland&comma; Oregon&period; She took her two children&comma; ages 7 and 4&comma; out of the car&period; She dangled them over the edge&comma; then dropped them into the dark water&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Stott-Smith&comma; then aged 31&comma; was in a violently abusive marriage and turned to drinking and drugs&comma; for escape&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card collection-item" data-type&equals;"text">&NewLine;<div class&equals;" card-content ">&NewLine;<p>Stott came from a conservative Christian family Rommelmann notes&comma; and was attending George Fox University&comma; a Quaker school in small-town Newburg&comma; Ore&period;&comma;  where the rebel&comma; eager for male attention lost her virginity and became pregnant in short order&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;After her son Gavin was born&comma; Mandy found herself a single mom when the baby&&num;8217&semi;s father joined the Navy&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;She applied for food stamps&comma; stayed in school&comma; but continued partying&comma; often leaving the infant with her increasingly annoyed girlfriends&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card collection-item" data-type&equals;"text">&NewLine;<div class&equals;" card-content ">&NewLine;<p>Soon Stott was pregnant again&comma; this time by her pot dealer&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;They became engaged&comma; but he didn’t have much money and the expectant young woman&period; informed her own grandmother that she didn’t want to marry a cash strapped&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Providence intervened as midway through the pregnancy&comma; her fiancé took his own life&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h6><strong><img class&equals;"alignnone size-full wp-image-295510" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2018&sol;06&sol;Trinity-Gavin-and-Eldon-Stott-Smith-1&period;jpg" alt&equals;"Trinity&comma; Gavin and Eldon Stott-Smith 1&period;jpg" width&equals;"1400" height&equals;"1051" &sol;>Amanda Stott-Smith&&num;8217&semi;s three children&comma; &lbrack;L-R&rsqb; Trinity Smith&comma; Gavin Stott and Eldon Smith&period; She targeted trinity and Eldon for murder but only Trinity miraculously survived the ordeal<&sol;strong><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card collection-item" data-type&equals;"text">&NewLine;<div class&equals;" card-content ">&NewLine;<p>The pregnant Stott quickly found a new boyfriend&comma; another sometimes drug dealer named Jason Smith&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Smith&comma; 24&comma; and had been in and out of trouble and drug rehab &period; Importantly he&&num;8217&semi;d also just inherited more than &dollar;200&comma;000 from his grandmother&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Considering her new beau a better prospect&comma; Stott and Smith became a couple&period; She moved in with her son Gavin while she gave up her new baby for adoption&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card collection-item" data-type&equals;"text">&NewLine;<div class&equals;" card-content ">&NewLine;<p>The material upgrade saw the social climber chauffeured around town and being treated her to shopping sprees at expensive stores&comma; but with one major quirk &&num;8211&semi; Stott’s girlfriends didn’t trust Smith&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Smith’s mother didn’t trust his new girlfriend either&comma; and went to court to seize control of her son’s assets&comma; citing her son&&num;8217&semi;s longtime drug problems and current &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;abusive relationship with a &OpenCurlyQuote;girlfriend&comma;’ which has resulted in the respondent being financially exploited&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card collection-item" data-type&equals;"text">&NewLine;<div class&equals;" card-content ">&NewLine;<h6><img class&equals;"alignnone size-full wp-image-295512" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2018&sol;06&sol;Sellwood-Bridge-Portland-oregon&period;jpg" alt&equals;"Sellwood Bridge&comma; Portland&comma; oregon&period;jpg" width&equals;"980" height&equals;"492" &sol;><strong>Amanda Stott-Smith threw her two younger children off Portland’s Sellwood Bridge on May 23&comma; 2009<&sol;strong><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<p>According to police records&comma; the abuse flowed both ways&period; Stott gave Smith a black eye&semi;  he in turn tried to strangle her&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card collection-item" data-type&equals;"text">&NewLine;<div class&equals;" card-content ">&NewLine;<p>The Department of Human Services had a thick running file on the household&period; On one occasion&comma; paramedics were summoned after Smith left little Gavin locked in a hot car&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card collection-item" data-type&equals;"text">&NewLine;<div class&equals;" card-content ">&NewLine;<p>Although Smith’s mother wrestled control of her son’s inheritance&comma; she simply used it to pay the bills he kept racking up&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Soon the money was gone&comma; and Amanda was pregnant a third time&period; Smith proposed and Stott accepted&period; The couple thereafter welcomed daughter&comma; Trinity&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card collection-item" data-type&equals;"text">&NewLine;<div class&equals;" card-content ">&NewLine;<p>Their situation improved temporarily when Smith landed a job&comma; but he was still doing drugs&comma; while his wife now with the hyphenated name Smith-Stott&comma; was still partying&period; Then things went bad again&period; Mandy would invite friends over and get so drunk that she forgot to cook dinner&period; Smith would scream at her in front of their kids&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card collection-item" data-type&equals;"text">&NewLine;<div class&equals;" card-content ">&NewLine;<p>&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Wife&comma; shut your mouth&excl;” he yelled&period; At restaurants he humiliated her by ordering more food than anyone could eat&comma; then telling her how fat she was&period; She would sneak into the bathroom to throw up&period; Still te couple had a second child together&comma; their son Eldon&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card collection-item" data-type&equals;"text">&NewLine;<div class&equals;" card-content ">&NewLine;<h6><strong><img class&equals;"alignnone wp-image-295509" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2018&sol;06&sol;Trinity-and-Eldon-Stott-Smith-2&period;jpg" alt&equals;"Trinity and Eldon Stott-Smith 2&period;JPG" width&equals;"646" height&equals;"737" &sol;>Hapless victims&colon; Trinity Stott &lbrack;right&rsqb; survived&comma; but her 4-year-old brother Eldon &lbrack;left&rsqb;&comma; did not<&sol;strong><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card collection-item" data-type&equals;"text">&NewLine;<div class&equals;" card-content ">&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card collection-item" data-type&equals;"text">&NewLine;<div class&equals;" card-content ">&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card card-pull-center card-captioned collection-item" data-type&equals;"image">Things continued like that until 2008 when Smith walked out on Mandy&comma; with the ultimatum that she had to stop drinking&comma; smoking&comma; lose weight and get a job&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Left with three kids&comma; she went on welfare and smith went into rehab in Eugene&comma; Ore&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;When he completed the program Smith informed his wife he was done with the marriage and would not be back&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;Stott sometimes would let the children visit their father&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;When they returned from visits with dad&comma; they told their mother how &&num;8216&semi;daddy had a new friend&period; She’s pretty&comma; they said&comma; and skinnier than you&period;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<p>Never before in sync with their daughter&&num;8217&semi;s perspective on life&comma; Stott-Smith’s family were concerned now&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;She had always been flighty&comma; now she was distracted&comma; depressed&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;They took her to see various psychiatrists&comma; who prescribed various drugs&period; &&num;8211&semi; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;You might go out and kill someone on these&comma;” one joked&comma; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;but otherwise have fun&excl;”<br &sol;>&NewLine;Stott-Smith reportedly&comma; sank deeper into despair&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card collection-item" data-type&equals;"text">&NewLine;<div class&equals;" card-content ">&NewLine;<h6><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;i2&period;wp&period;com&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2018&sol;06&sol;Amanda-Stott-Smith-1&period;jpg&quest;ssl&equals;1&amp&semi;w&equals;1496" alt&equals;"Amanda Stott-Smith 1&period;jpg" &sol;><strong>Amanda Stott-Smith looks clear-eyed in court in 2009<&sol;strong><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<p>Te writer does not speculate on the thoughts running through the head of the mother-o-three that night of May&comma; 2009 when she loaded 7-year-old Trinity and 4-year-old Eldon in her car and drove to the bridge&period; Her oldest son 12-year-old Gavin may have survived because he wanted to stay home with his grandparents&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card collection-item" data-type&equals;"text">&NewLine;<div class&equals;" card-content ">&NewLine;<p>She dropped her daughter in first&period; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Help me&excl;” the girl screamed&period; Then Stott-Smith turned and went back for her little boy&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card collection-item" data-type&equals;"text">&NewLine;<div class&equals;" card-content ">&NewLine;<p>&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Did you just put her in the water or something&quest;” Eldon asked as she picked him up&period;Those were his last words&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h6><img class&equals;"alignnone wp-image-295517" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2018&sol;06&sol;Jason-Smith-1&period;jpg" alt&equals;"Jason Smith 1&period;jpg" width&equals;"469" height&equals;"780" &sol;><br &sol;>&NewLine;<strong>The children&&num;8217&semi;s father&comma; jason Smith &lbrack;photo&rsqb;&comma; still doesn&&num;8217&semi;t understand why his ex decided to murder his young children<&sol;strong><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<p>Afterward she called Smith&period; He didn’t pick up&period; When his in-laws later phoned to say Amanda was missing&comma; he finally called his wife back&period; It was hours before she answered&period; He asked if the children were OK&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card collection-item" data-type&equals;"text">&NewLine;<div class&equals;" card-content ">&NewLine;<p>&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Why have you done this to me&quest;” she asked him&period; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Why have you taken my joy away&quest;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card collection-item" data-type&equals;"text">&NewLine;<div class&equals;" card-content ">&NewLine;<p>Police tracked her to the ninth floor of a parking garage&period; An officer grabbed her just as she was about to jump&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card collection-item" data-type&equals;"text">&NewLine;<div class&equals;" card-content ">&NewLine;<p>Amazingly&comma; Trinity survived the icy water&comma; so Stott-Smith was only charged with murdering one of child<br &sol;>&NewLine;<span class&equals;"photo-breakout photo-center large"><span class&equals;"caption">Stott- Smith was formally sentenced to life in prison with the possibility of parole after 35 years in prison after having pleaded guilty to one count of aggravated murder in the death of 4-year-old Eldon Jay Rebhan Smith and one count of attempted aggravated murder of his 7-year-old sister&period; <&sol;span><&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card card-pull-center card-captioned collection-item card-border-bottom card-border-bottom-thick card-border-bottom-dark" data-type&equals;"image">&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card collection-item" data-type&equals;"text">&NewLine;<div class&equals;" card-content ">&NewLine;<h6><strong> <img class&equals;"alignnone wp-image-295516" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;konniemoments&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2018&sol;06&sol;Amanda-Stott-Smith-4&period;jpg" alt&equals;"Amanda Stott-Smith 4&period;jpg" width&equals;"670" height&equals;"521" &sol;>Amanda Stott-Smith tried to look away&comma; as she walks past the two poster-size photos of her 4-year-old son on an easel at the front of a Multnomah County courtroom in April 2010<&sol;strong><&sol;h6>&NewLine;<p>Rommelmann points out that at least eight children were killed by their parents that week&comma; many by their mothers&period;Yet&comma; in a weird kind of sexism&comma; men are punished more severely&period; Rommelmann suggests that’s because children are still considered a kind of property&comma; a woman’s property&period; And who destroys their own possessions&quest; You would have to be insane&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card collection-item" data-type&equals;"text">&NewLine;<div class&equals;" card-content ">&NewLine;<p>Which is why a man convicted of killing his child has a 72&percnt; chance of going to prison&period; A woman convicted of the same crime&quest; Only 27&percnt;&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card collection-item" data-type&equals;"text">&NewLine;<div class&equals;" card-content ">&NewLine;<p>Amanda Stott-Smith proved the exception to that rule&period; The death penalty was very much on the table&period; Her mental state&comma; or any past emotional abuse&comma; was not considered&period; Stott-Smith wound u&lbrack;pled guilty&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card collection-item" data-type&equals;"text">&NewLine;<div class&equals;" card-content ">&NewLine;<p>At the age of 32 she was sentenced to life&comma; with the possibility of parole after 35 years&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card collection-item" data-type&equals;"text">&NewLine;<div class&equals;" card-content ">&NewLine;<p>That was in 2010&comma; and after seven years of research and reporting&comma; Rommelmann is no closer to a simple&comma; clear-cut answer to why this happened than she was at the beginning&period; No one really is&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div class&equals;"card collection-item" data-type&equals;"text">&NewLine;<div class&equals;" card-content ">&NewLine;<p data-page&equals;"2">&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Mandy did it&comma;” Stott-Smith’s grandmother told the reporter flatly&period; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;She’s guilty&semi; she’s in prison and she deserves to be&period; But how did she get to that point&quest; &&num;8230&semi; How do you understand the not understandable and forgive the unforgivable&quest;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p data-page&equals;"2">&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;section>&NewLine;

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